\ud83d\udccdDedicated to one of my customers last week, and to you who are reading this online:<\/p>\n
\ud83e\ude91 When you make an appointment to meet someone, what will you do while waiting?
\nJust sit there and do nothing?
\nOr just scrolling through your phone to kill time?<\/p>\n
\ud83e\udde0 Most people won\u2019t just stare blankly, but they won\u2019t necessarily proactively prepare for the next conversation either.
\nIn fact, the state of waiting is not important, the key is:
\n\ud83d\udc49 # What do you choose to do while you wait.
\n\ud83d\udcd2 If you can during this time
\n\ud83d\udcad Anticipate conversation points
\n\ud83d\udde3\ufe0f Think about the other person\u2019s possible response
\n\ud83c\udfaf Be clear about what you want to achieve
\nThen when we meet, we will naturally be more relaxed and focused.<\/p>\n
\ud83d\udcf5 If you just scroll through your phone and waste time aimlessly,
\nAlthough it may seem relaxing, it can also make you appear scattered and passive during a formal conversation.<\/p>\n
There is no right or wrong in either of these # options, but the results are very different:
\n\u2705 The former continuously prepares and accumulates advantages, making it easier to achieve goals;
\n\u274c The latter let time pass, wasting time waiting and missing the opportunity to get closer to their goals.<\/p>\n
\ud83e\udded The Xu Gua talks about "waiting", but the real wisdom lies in:
\nIt\u2019s not about waiting, but about \u201cdoing something while waiting\u201d.
\nWaiting is not stagnation, but accumulation of momentum.
\nHow you wait determines whether you can seize that moment.<\/p>\n
# Xu Gua # Accumulation
\n# information inquiry service
\n# fortune telling # know your fate and change your luck # Qian Gua
\n# I Ching # Feng Shui # Metaphysics # Eight Characters # Numerology
\n# Xuanding#MasterMandyLim
\n# Xuanshuo Zhenli 209<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
\ud83e\udded The Xu Gua talks about "waiting", but the real wisdom lies in:
\nIt\u2019s not about waiting, but about \u201cdoing something while waiting\u201d.
\nWaiting is not stagnation, but accumulation of momentum.
\nHow you wait determines whether you can seize that moment.<\/p>","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":1215,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"image","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[8,11],"tags":[159],"class_list":["post-1214","post","type-post","status-publish","format-image","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-yi-jing","category-xuan-xue","tag-159","post_format-post-format-image"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterlimfengshui.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1214","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterlimfengshui.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterlimfengshui.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterlimfengshui.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterlimfengshui.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1214"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/masterlimfengshui.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1214\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1216,"href":"https:\/\/masterlimfengshui.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1214\/revisions\/1216"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterlimfengshui.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1215"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterlimfengshui.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1214"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterlimfengshui.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1214"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterlimfengshui.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1214"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}