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Here is a test question:
On a stormy night,
You drive past a station.
There are three people waiting for the bus at the station.
One was an old woman who was dying.
One is the doctor who once saved your life.
The other is your long-time dream lover.
If you can only take one passenger with you,
Which one would you choose?
Everyone has a different answer.
Some chose the lover of their lifetime.
Some choose dying old women based on morals,
Some choose that doctor out of gratitude.
Any answer will be opposed by others.
The best answer is:
"Leave Che Gong to the doctor,
Let the doctor take the old man to the hospital.
Then wait for Batu with your dream lover.
When this answer comes out,
Many people have to say with emotion:
"It's so perfect, why didn't I think of it?
This is probably because we never thought of giving up that key.
In our hearts, we have always stubbornly believed that the key belongs to us.
In fact, when we are faced with choices,
Don't be stubborn in choosing one of them.
Change your perspective and try to give up some things, the results may be different.
The Sun hexagram in the Book of Changes has such a meaning.
It may seem like a loss, but when the initiative is in your hands,
This loss can bring us ultimate benefit.
This is also what we often say "first loss, then gain"!
When you feel that you are always suffering in life,
Why not think from a different perspective?
To suffer a loss is to gain an advantage.
And God won’t always let you suffer!
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