I Ching: Jian Gua – Follow the steps

For example, the ancient marriage system

Focus on getting to know each other, dating, and then getting married and having children.

Such steps make the journey of marriage smoother.

However, with the changing times,

Flash marriage and unmarried birth have become the norm.

Such quick decisions often lead to many subsequent problems.

Being impatient for quick results is not a wise choice.

In all aspects, including marriage,

Following a routine is often more reliable and sustainable.

Through careful acquaintance and getting along,

We have the opportunity to understand each other's strengths and weaknesses more deeply.

So as to better adapt to each other's lifestyles and needs.

Additionally, relationships that develop slowly are usually stronger.

It is easier to cope with challenges and changes in life.

therefore,

Although modern society tends to pursue speed and instant gratification,

But when it comes to life-critical decisions,

It is still worth our careful consideration.

Following the traditional steps of meeting, dating, and getting married,

To ensure we are on a steady path,

Towards a happy and fulfilling future.