📍Dedicated to one of my customers last week, and to you who are reading this online:
🪑 When you make an appointment to meet someone, what will you do while waiting?
Just sit there and do nothing?
Or just scrolling through your phone to kill time?
🧠 Most people won’t just stare blankly, but they won’t necessarily proactively prepare for the next conversation either.
In fact, the state of waiting is not important, the key is:
👉 # What do you choose to do while you wait.
📒 If you can during this time
💭 Anticipate conversation points
🗣️ Think about the other person’s possible response
🎯 Be clear about what you want to achieve
Then when we meet, we will naturally be more relaxed and focused.
📵 If you just scroll through your phone and waste time aimlessly,
Although it may seem relaxing, it can also make you appear scattered and passive during a formal conversation.
There is no right or wrong in either of these # options, but the results are very different:
✅ The former continuously prepares and accumulates advantages, making it easier to achieve goals;
❌ The latter let time pass, wasting time waiting and missing the opportunity to get closer to their goals.
🧭 The Xu Gua talks about "waiting", but the real wisdom lies in:
It’s not about waiting, but about “doing something while waiting”.
Waiting is not stagnation, but accumulation of momentum.
How you wait determines whether you can seize that moment.
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