Who is my villain?
This is one of the most frequently asked questions by customers.
Let's put aside for now who exactly is your villain.
When you believe that someone is going to bring you misfortune, suspicion will inevitably arise.
Once preconceived notions are formed, interactions between people will be affected.
Words become cautious, defensiveness becomes natural, and even simple conversations are interpreted as having ulterior motives.
The saying goes, "Suspicion breeds ghosts." Many conflicts do not actually stem from the other party, but rather from inner unease and defensiveness.
When genuine commitment is no longer possible, distance naturally grows in a relationship;
When there is suspicion in one's heart, cooperation is prone to misunderstandings.
Over time, what might have been a good relationship can drift apart due to misunderstandings.
Instead of rushing to find out "who the villain is",
It's better to first understand your own situation, the current atmosphere, and your interpersonal relationships.
The real key is not who the other party is.
It depends on how you adjust your mindset and strategy to make yourself more stable, clearer, and more powerful.
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