Communication is an important lesson in life.
Misunderstandings often arise due to improper communication.
The same words or the same thing,
Different people have different interpretations.
Different ideas, different perspectives,
Dealing with things is also different.
Communication is not difficult.
The difficulty is when opinions differ.
Can't let go of your status,
Can't let go of obsession.
The more you insist, the harder it is to step down.
This eventually led to a dispute.
That is one of the hexagrams in the Book of Changes, the litigation hexagram.
There is actually "harmony" between people when they get along with each other.
The Xun Gua in the Book of Changes.
When a dispute occurs, if you can obey the other party first,
To ease the relationship between the two sides.
Then deal with it with humility, compliance and obedience.
Then there will naturally be more harmony between people and in society.
Of course, this obedience must come from the heart.
Be sincere, don't be pretentious.
You also need to strike a balance between being too much and too little.
# Xun Gua
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