己土人
能承载万物,也最容易把别人的责任当成自己的责任。
It's not that I lack ability, it's just that I'm used to putting others first.
对待人、对待事情,
Always choose to understand, rather than to hold a grudge;
Always take responsibility silently, instead of shirking it.
Over time,
长时间迁就别人,最后委屈的是自己;
把情绪压抑收藏,久了便成了内耗;
害怕拒绝别人,最后失去了自己的界限;
总想着成全别人,却忘了成全自己。
Truly mature Earth
不是继续一味付出,
而是懂得在包容别人的同时,也学会善待自己。
The Eight Characters (Ba Zi) are not just about fortune.
It allows you to better see your talents and life lessons.
