Ji Earth People
It can bear all things, and it is also most likely to take the responsibilities of others as its own.
It's not that I lack ability, it's just that I'm used to putting others first.
In dealing with people and things,
Always choose to understand, rather than to hold a grudge;
Always take responsibility silently, instead of shirking it.
Over time,
If you keep accommodating others, you'll only end up hurting yourself.
Suppressing and bottling up emotions over time will lead to internal conflict.
Being afraid to refuse others eventually leads to the loss of one's own boundaries;
Always thinking about pleasing others, but forgetting to please yourself.
Truly mature Earth
Instead of continuing to give unconditionally,
Instead, they learn to be kind to themselves while being tolerant of others.
The Eight Characters (Ba Zi) are not just about fortune.
It allows you to better see your talents and life lessons.
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