I am willing to accept what I find joyful.
Many times in life,
We are not aware of the subtle changes in our hearts ❤️.
For example:
One day,
Mom 👩 woke up early on purpose,
Prepared a rich breakfast for the children.
And full of joy
Waiting for the child to wake up
I can enjoy breakfast before going to school🏫.
But today the child has no appetite.
Can't eat breakfast 🍳.
that's all,
Inevitably, the mother felt disappointed.
I couldn't help but murmur,
Maybe even later
Unconsciously, I couldn't control my emotions.
In life or at work
I use this to vent out any frustration I encounter.
Likewise,
The same is true in the workplace.
Responsible for following up the project with all my heart.
But because of a careless criticism from someone else,
Leave a thorn in your heart.
I believe I gave my all.
But I am not recognized or acknowledged by others, which makes me extremely disappointed!
People with strong wealth in their Bazi (Four Pillars of Destiny) often achieve success after putting in effort.
If you still don't get recognition from others,
It is easy to fall into a more extreme way of thinking.
Or when one feels that the effort and reward are disproportionate,
They are also prone to anger 😤😤😤.
The most practical way to respond at this time is to give the other person the reward they want.
Of course, this also involves considerations such as rationality and practicality.
The essence of analyzing Bazi (Four Pillars of Destiny) lies in understanding how to use one's destiny effectively.
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