I Ching

When people gather together, there will be communication and joy; however, there will also be disputes and disagreements. As the saying goes: "When there are many people, there will be disputes." Disputes are inevitable in the process of communication. This is not only because everyone's ideas, backgrounds and experiences are different, but also because in a group, everyone is seeking to be understood and accepted.

There are many choices in life. No matter what we choose, we will inevitably experience "gains" and "losses". What we gain may not necessarily be good, and what we lose may not necessarily be bad.

The ancient marriage system focused on meeting, dating, and then getting married and having children. This process made the marriage path smoother. However, with the changes of the times, lightning marriages and unmarried children have become the norm. Such quick decisions often bring many subsequent problems.

Stop for a while to avoid further losses; slow down for a while to avoid further misunderstandings. Life is not just about rushing forward. If you stop, you may find a new direction; if you know how to wait, you may get better results!

Dui Gua emphasizes the art of communication. Misunderstandings between people often stem from each other's assumptions - thinking that the other party can empathize with their own predicament.

The lower hexagram of the Yijing Family hexagram is fire, which represents the middle daughter. The upper hexagram is wind, which represents the middle son. If the family is in a good order, the world will be stable.

Xian Gua is the first of the 64 Guas in the Book of Changes. The Upper Gua talks about the beginning of the universe, and the Lower Gua talks about the beginning of love between men and women, which means that after the creation of the world, there were men and women, family, society, morality, order and country.

Life is like a long journey, and the meaning of the journey lies not in the destination, but in the scenery and experiences along the way.

Life is like a long journey, and the meaning of the journey lies not in the destination, but in the scenery and experiences along the way.